I know, I’m shocked too. Who would have thought? Definitely not I- but apparently 2020 is the year of the unthinkable coming true, starting with me celebrating V-Day. Remember last year’s post when I mentioned possibly stopping to hate Valentine’s Day when I found an “amazing bae“? Well ladies and gentlemen, I don’t know if I totally love the holiday just yet, but I hate it a little less this year.

I’ve always been very open and honest with you all here, so yes, I have a boyfriend. It feels sooo weird typing that out- lol. We’ve been dating for a couple of months, but just recently made our boyfriend/girlfriend thing official. Do I have to change my relationship status on Facebook? Are people still doing that? I’m lost in this whole relationship world; please send help. SOS.

Anyway, I’m excited to be celebrating today with such an amazing guy. It feels nice to be treated so well by someone and to have someone who genuinely enjoys making me happy (I’m very happy these days). I even got him some Valentine’s Day treats (spoiler alert if you’re reading this, Babe). This is a whole new me… I don’t know what to do! I’m winging it as I go and it seems to be working, so let’s hope I don’t let myself down.

Happy Valentine’s Day to all my gals, my single friends, my basically married friends, and everyone in between. I hope today (and everyday) is filled with the love you deserve, whether it be from your bestie, your boo, or yourself. And if you want to spend today hating all the love and relationships, do it. You have the right to. God knows I’ve had my fair share (*cough* 23- but who’s counting) of Valentine’s Days that I spent annoyed and single… Unless we’re counting elementary school when the whole class gave you a Valentine’s Day card, then it’s a little less than 23. I miss those days.

Extra hugs and kisses today,

Nicki G.

P.S. Do not answer that certain someone’s “wyd” text… Yes, I’m talking to you. It’s not worth it. I repeat- do not answer it! Block his number!